so, my last post was in January 2018. It was in the beginning of the year then my will to write just vanished to thin air and totally forgot about this space. Up until recently, my sis-in-law suddenly updated her blog gave me an idea to update mine too. No..bukan I kiasu dia update, aku pun kene update but just points that I need to release from my mind. Kalau tak meroyan kat twitter so I think its better to write here. Its not like anyone reads my blog anyway..haha! 🤣 except for hubby lah…

As a mother, you know how protective you are towards your child regardless physically or emotionally. So, whenever my kids started to compare themselves with their relatives i.e cousins or friends, I feel that it is my obligation to shield them from the negative thoughts.

For example, I would refrain to show them any pictures related to events with friends or cousins that they are unable to join and missed out like ice skating, river swimming or just plain hanging out at their grandparents house. The reason is to avoid emotionally heart break, throwing tantrum and majorly to avoid “the left out” feeling which I myself HATE feeling it too. 🤬

Yes, you might think that I’m so cruel mom by not sharing other people’s happy moments and let them learn to be happy for someone else but dude! if you are here to pujuk them yang merajuk and tabur janji palsu to my kids then go ahead be my guest. Show them all the pictures and boast happily about your activities and please once you promised my children you are going to be giving them the same treatment, make sure you fulfill it because if they put up a fight and feeling sad and annoyed and left out, it is all on you! I am going to tuntut all those things for my kids to the grave! ⚰️⚔️☠️ Otherwise, all I can say it what they dont know wont hurt them! That is why the title of this post is ignorance is bliss.

Toodles!

💕,
Farah Ramlee