Hi! I got inspired to write a post in my blog after reading my cousin’s rants in her blog. Unlike her, it is so typical of me not to write a full lengthy English blog posts. (I will try for this post). There will always be BM pasar sentences and I bet that if she ever finds out about my blog, she would complaint about my writings. She might add as well that it is embarassing for Malaysians to write these kinds of blog posts and let the entire world access to it. Haha…you might think I’m exaggerating but wait till you meet her in person! =) So all hopes and pray hard that she wont find this piece of my life.

So, I already started to fished around things for the W-day. My mother, loving the W-day planner role seems to be jolly express in everything. I supposed it was because of her two time experienced on handling such events makes her pretty sharp and on the dot. It does get on my nerves sometimes but I know she’s doing her best to get the best. Whatever she is doing now is for me and my future hubby’s ceremony. I just hope we get to level things down and not to be over controlling when it comes to these arrangements. I mean, I’m going to stepped into another life that is worth more than all these fancy W-day thingies. After a few years, I might look back and think that all the problems that occurred was merely just as small as dusts compare to the things I’ll be facing in marriage life.

On another different topic, I was encountered with a situation during my drive back to home from work today. In this situation, we have two girls A and B, and a married dude C. All of them are quite in the same age group so in your heads there should be a statement stating they are really good friends. So, A, B and C suddenly becoming good Samaritans and decided to car pool. hehe =)

Situation 1: First day they car pooled on A’s car. In this case, it is not so weird for all of them since B and A’s boss was together car pooling too. It makes this situation looks innocent and honest ride hence no prejudice or gossips can be made upon this situation because clearly they are in for the working ride.

Situation 2: Second day, they decided to use B’s car. In the morning, A, B and C was together in B’s car. In this situation, in my opinion would be the same case as above. It is just another innocent and honest ride to go to work and that C is there to tag along. A and B would be seating in front and C at the back alone.

Situation 3: Now here’s a lil bit tricky, you see since A and B have already done their part to share their cars, its time for them to use C’s car. Here’s the problem, C has a wife. A and B are single unmarried girls.

The pop quiz question is: Can A and B ride C’s car without offending the C’s wife?

If I were in C’s wife shoes, I’d be some jealous b**** because I don’t really want my husband to use our car and drive two single attractive girl strangers anywhere! Not in my damn car, not in my damn life ever.

But it is so unfair that C could ride with A and B together without harmful consequences provided that the cars are owned by A and B. When it comes to C’s car, I don’t think it is appropriate that A and B should car pool in it. Unless there is a D male person. If there is only A, B and C, obviously either A or B needs to be seated on the passengers side. What if an acquaintance of C happens to bump into them and started to think nonsense and spread the words. What if that bloody wind blows straight to the ears of C’s wife, what do you think could happen? World War 3 perhaps?

Some thought situation 3 is fine since C have been tagging along with A and B, 2 days ago. No complaints heard from the wife. In my honest opinion, that is so different in so many levels because the car is owned by A and B.

hahah….do you get I’m trying to say here? It is so difficult-lah….haih!~! maybe if you are kind enough, please state your 2 cents in the comments. =)

toodles!~!

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Farah Ramlee